Singles that have it all

Why 40sDating works

Find the one who’s right for you

The beginning of a loving relationship.

Based on the results of 40sDating’s scientific personality questionnaire, we will only introduce you to truly suitable matches. Your questionnaire results, a description of your ideal partner, and our match recommendations are free and without obligation.
Protecting your personal data.

Your personal information and communication with your matches cannot be accessed by outside parties.

Getting to know someone has never been this simple.

Take a look at your matches at your own pace. Comprehensive profiles help you discover common interests. Send a compliment, smile, or a personal message - we make it easy for you to take the first step!
40sDating safety guidelines

Date safely and easily on 40sDating - At 40sDating you’ll not only find the date you’ve always been looking for, you’ll also find a safe environment. We have many features to ensure that your dating will be secure. Online Security with 40sDating

With 40sDating, dating at 40+ is about clarity, not compromise.

Find love Down Under

40sDating Online Dating in New Zealand

Finding love in New Zealand – large distances and a population of singles spread unevenly across a vast country can make dating a challenge. Thanks to online dating, finding love in New Zealand has become much easier in recent years.

Video calls!

Get to know someone new on a video call date

Trust. Get to know selected matches with a video call before a face-to-face meeting. Enjoy engaging conversations and laughter together in the comfort of your home with our video call feature!
Full control. With a video call, you decide who you want to talk to, how long the date will last and what information you will reveal to the other person. From your home or a coffee shop, you decide the next step!
Privacy. Your matches will not have access to your personal data and information. You decide what you want to share and when, you are protected on our site.
Secure. When using our video call feature you are protected with 128bit SSL encryption. Connection data and your personal details are not visible to third parties. Online security is a top priority for us.

A connection that brought peace

We share important values and views. Our life paths so far have given us similar insights, and we sense and appreciate each other's strong personalities. After a short time, even before we had met in person, I already noticed that our conversations were bringing about changes within me: Our very open, honest, and respectful way of talking to each other led to important (self-)discoveries, a strong connection, and - as sentimental as it may sound - peace and freedom between us.

Anja, 45

We met after just two days

From our first contact to our first meeting, it only took two days. Susann was at a skate park with her children, and we spontaneously met there. We had already sensed something special between us while messaging, and it was confirmed when we met; after ten minutes, we were in each other's arms.

Torsten, 54

Love at First Coffee

After answering some questions and many visits on the app, we decided to meet for coffee one day. It was love at first sight. Thank you.

Juan, 48

What our community says

40sDating users share how dating feels when life experience meets new beginnings. From open conversations to meaningful encounters, their stories show that starting fresh at 40+ can feel surprisingly natural. Explore their experiences - and add your own when ready.

Alessandro, 48

The ease of creating a profile facilitates the experience. The moderators' tips help and motivate a first contact.

Monica, 43

All the men were genuinely interested in a relationship, and if not, they communicated it openly.

Jonas, 48

It was quick to find suitable matches.

40sDating Online Dating in New Zealand cities

If you are single in Auckland, Wellington, Christchurch, Hamilton, Touranga or any of the other major cities in New Zealand, online dating can help you connect with other singles near you and find a partner who is suited to your personality.

A serious online dating site like 40sDating will help you find others who want to find love and a meaningful relationship.

40sDating Online Dating in Taranaki

If you are single living in the vast, remote areas of New Zealand, looking for love can be difficult. Not only is it harder to connect with other singles near you, but you will also be looking for a partner who is happy to live a rural lifestyle.

If you are looking for love, or even marriage, you need to make sure your partner is willing to relocate if they don't already live there. 40sDating online dating can help you find love in Northland, Gisborne, Wellington, Tasman, Marlborough, Canterbury and Otango.

Online Dating step by step

The first step towards finding love in New Zealand with an online dating site like 40sDating is to take the free personality questionnaire and create a personal online dating profile.

You will immediately be able to see other singles who fit your search criteria and are the best matches for you according to the compatibility of your personality results. Register today and find out what online dating can offer you!

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I stay safe while dating on 40sDating?

You choose what appears on your profile. Your data is encrypted, and you can flag or report profiles that seem suspicious at any time. Additional advice is available in our Safety area.

Why do my recommendations change over time?

Profile suggestions adapt to activity levels, preferences, and newly registered users. This ensures you always see relevant and up-to-date profiles.

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